Hoe behandelt u een constatly klagende medewerker?

complaining
Laura asked:


Zij klaagt altijd altijd over één ding of andere. Sommige dagen moeten wij samenwerken en de hele dag hoor ik enkel haar wandeling op ongeveer alles. Het is zo oud geworden. Zijn er om het even welke beleefde woorden van raad ik haar kon geven?

Tyler

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6 comments

stoppdemadness2003:
 1 

Yes, tell her she really sounds unhappy with life and that she should really see a professional about it. Let her know that it is annoying and bringing you down.

April 16th, 2009 at 8:20 am
jenesuispasunnombre:
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The hint that is negative she is talk about and you like to talk about whatever you down and maybe.

April 19th, 2009 at 5:48 am
Deborah S:
 3 

Tell her that you really don;t want to hear it and ignore her.

April 22nd, 2009 at 8:16 am
thisisme:
 4 

Being polite won’t get you anywhere; is she being polite to you? No. Some people are toxic; she is one of those, however, since you have to work with her you need to set her straight so there is no doubt in her mind you mean what you say and you can use a polite tone of voice. Tell her that everyone has problems, you have them too but you cannot listen to any more of hers because one, it is a distraction; two, it is negative energy; three, there is nothing you can do about it and four, you need to focus on your work and not her problems constantly.
Then if she still persists you will need to avoid her entirely or tell your boss.

April 24th, 2009 at 10:58 pm
northcarrlight:
 5 

Stay away stay as far away as possible from here, she will drag you down with her. Toughen up on this one you are really worth more than that

April 26th, 2009 at 6:11 pm
Frank:
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April 26th, 2009 at 6:43 pm